10 Ways To Make Women Love You
Here are 10 most important things you need to know about how to get women:
1. See girl, move feet
The man usually makes the first move. Even if she’s interested in you, the most she’s likely to do is to stand near
you or make eye contact a couple times to encourage you to approach her.
Once you see her, don’t hesitate. 10 minutes from now she might not be there or another guy might have beaten
you to the punch. Plus, women can tell when you’re working up the courage to approach. Shyness might be endearing
in movies and romance novels, but it doesn’t work in the real world. Approach right away, even if you don’t know what
you’re going to say (we’ll cover that later).
2. Attraction before comfort
Men who don’t know how to get women often ask her lots of questions hoping that they’ll stumble on something they
have in common.
Sometimes this can work, but usually not. Until she has a reason to care about what you think of her, you’re just another
random guy asking her the same questions every other random guy asks her. What you can do is to tell her (or better,
show her) something interesting about yourself first. When she gets curious about you, she will start with the questions.
This is especially important in terms of how to get beautiful women. Hotter women usually get approached more and have
less tolerance for the usual “random guy” questions.
3. Statements, not questions
This is connected to the last point. Questions contribute nothing to a conversation and tell her nothing about you.
Too many questions makes it feel like a job interview.
Never ask two questions in a row. Statements can often replace questions. Instead of asking where’s she’s from,
tell her where you’re from and she may respond in kind. Or guess where she’s from. It doesn’t matter if you are right;
either way it’s more interesting than yet another factual question.
4. Playful, not serious
Fun and playful works much better than serious and deep.
Even serious women go out because they want to relax and have fun.
There’s a time and a place for being serious and deep, but it’s not within 15 minutes of meeting her. Smile, laugh,
and don’t take everything too seriously.
5. Be a challenge
Men who are experienced in how to get women know that you can’t make it too easy for her. If she knows that she can
have you before she’s done anything to deserve your attention other than being pretty, then she might be flattered, but
she won’t be attracted.
Even if you approach her with a compliment, which is something that is often done in day game, let this mean that she
has your curiosity, not your undying love. Don’t give her compliments she hasn’t earned.
6. How you dress is your identity
Attractive women get hit on so much that they don’t have time to get to know every single man who wants to talk to her
Within 30-90 seconds, she’s going to decide if you’re a “maybe” or a “no.” A lot of that comes from how you dress.
It’s not just being fashionable. It’s about projecting who you are. Mixed messages are confusing and make women think
you’re trying to hide something or be someone you’re not. Lawyers don’t wear ripped jeans. Musicians don’t dress like
accountants. Fun, confident men don’t dress to blend in. And so on.
7. Touch early, touch often
You can’t talk a woman into bed or into a relationship. So if you’re wondering how do you get a girl interested in you
when nothing you say seems to be working, the problem might be with your hands more than your words.
Touch her (appropriately – hands, shoulders, etc.) as soon as you meet her and slowly escalate the duration and
intensity of each touch. Give her time to get comfortable with your touch – if she’s not comfortable holding your
hand, she’s definitely not going to be comfortable being sexual with you.
8. Use your balls
Playing it safe will never get you the girl. Women appreciate confidence, boldness, and persistence.
Make the first move. Some women may like you but still want you to work for it.
And don’t whine because you’re going home alone if you never tried to get her to come home with you.
Like hockey superstar Wayne Gretzky said, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
9. The first thing you say doesn’t matter
There is no such thing as a pickup line that will help you learn how to get women.
The only purpose of your ‘opening line’ is to start a conversation.
You can try something fun like asking her and her friends to settle an argument between you and your friends, like
“Is it OK to break up with someone by text message?” or “Do Drunk ‘I Love You’s’ Count?” Run with it for 30-60 seconds
then change the subject to something else. Congratulations – you’re in the door!
10. Be man enough to get help
Men aren’t “supposed” to seek out advice on how to get women or ask their friends how do I get a girl.
We don’t sit around analyzing each other’s relationships.
Still, picking up beautiful women is a skill that anyone can learn with enough time, practice, and access to the right
resources.
